BBLB Maxims

#1 Exercise your creative muscles.   

#2 It’s easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

#3 Breaking little rules is empowering. Just don’t make others clean up your mess.

#4 Don’t be afraid to break with convention. It’s liberating and might inspire others.   

#5 Be brave and open to changes and life transitions.

#6 Don’t be a victim.

#7 Cultivate a sense of humor. It will keep you sane.

#8 Parenting is not a popularity contest.

#9 Yes, your children’s shit really does stink.

#10 Don’t let kid demands derail the pursuit of your passions.

#11 Don’t let time be your boss. 

#12 Hold your friends dear.

#35 Acceptance is an active state, not a passive one.

#13 Be kind and patient with yourself during major changes.

#14 Allow comfort to govern your fashion choices.

#15 Don’t be an entitled old person.

#16 Don’t worship at the feet of Brother Time. Pay homage to Sister Space.

#17 Seek out the silver linings.

#18 Be brave. Don’t accept physical limitations. Invent your own definition of athleticism.

#19 Try wasting a day.

#20 Don’t neglect romance. Touch is as important in our BBLB years as it ever was.

#21 Got gummies?

#22 Try some pet therapy.

#23 Bravery is about saying “Yes, and…”

#24 If need be, dump the dude.

#4 Don’t be afraid to break with convention. It’s liberating and might inspire others. 

#29 Avoid being someone’s oxygen tank.

#25 Accepting the state of our purses equals accepting ourselves.

#26 Stay foolish.                                                                                                               

#27 Live in community with one another.

#28 Your purse doesn’t have to match your clothes.

#29 Avoid becoming someone’s oxygen tank.

#30 Let’s serve as God’s proxies.

#31 Following the GRP guidelines will sass up your role as grandmother.

#32 Instead of playing the guilt card, play the reframing card. It’s transformative.

#33 Take calculated risks.

#34 Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is brave.

#35 Acceptance is an active state, not a passive one.